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FROM WOUNDED BOY TO SAFE MAN
Stop letting the scared boy inside you run your anger, your fear and your relationships.
THE WOUNDED BOY DOES NOT NEED TO DISAPPEAR.HE NEEDS TO STOP RUNNING THE MAN.
Why I teach this
I lost everything more than once. My company, my home, my relationships. Today I can regulate my own emotions and my own nervous system. I know that nobody is coming to save me.
What I help you with
- Regulating your emotions instead of being run by them
- Calming your own nervous system
- Building your roots before you build your crown
- Creating a safe space for the people you love
- Getting control of your lust
- Knowing that nobody is coming to save you, and being fine with it
You get WhatsApp support between sessions.
The boy may show up as neediness, control, jealousy, rage, collapse, avoidance, validation seeking or emotional shutdown. These strategies may once have protected you. They can later damage the relationships and life you care about.
The strong man is not a man without wounds. He can feel them without handing them control. The work is strength without armor: truth, responsibility, boundaries, discipline, love and the ability to act from values instead of fear.
The work may include
- Fear and abandonment
- Control and jealousy
- Validation
- Masculinity
- Relationships
- Self-command
- Truth
- Boundaries
- Emotional regulation
- Responsibility
What clients wrote to me
“a year ago i was a mess. relationship was hanging by a thread, i was 20 kilos heavier and i'd either shut down or explode whenever she tried to talk to me. i honestly thought thats just who i was. now we talk about the hard stuff without it turning into a fight. i can feel sad or scared and actually say it out loud instead of hiding it. thank you for pushing me when i wanted to quit. this is the life i didnt think was for guys like me”
Messages from clients, shared with their permission. Shortened, not rewritten.
How the work moves
1 to 4
The boy
What is actually running you. Fear, control, neediness, anger. Where it comes from, and what the boy is still trying to get.
5 to 8
The man
Feel it without running. Grief without trying to erase it. Fear without giving it control. Stop making another person responsible for your safety.
9 to 12
The safe man
Responsibility. Boundaries. Hard conversations. What it looks like on a random Tuesday.
How it works
- 01Free 30 minute intro call. We talk about what is actually going on, and whether working together makes sense.
- 02You choose a package: 1, 5, 10 or 18 sessions.
- 03We start. All sessions are online. 30 minutes each.
Programs and prices
Single session
30 min. Online.
$65
5 sessions
30 min. Online.
$290
$58 per session
10 sessions
30 min. Online.
$550
$55 per session
Best value
18 sessions
30 min. Online.
$780
$43 per session
Not sure which program fits? That is what the free intro call is for.
Not right for you after the first session? You get your money back for the rest.
Questions
- What if it is not right for me?
- Then you get your money back for the sessions you have not had. Tell me after the first session.
- What is the free intro call, and how do I know if it is the right fit?
- It is a short, focused 30 minute conversation about where you are right now, what you want, and whether working with me is the right fit. It is not a sales call, and it is not a free coaching session. It is an alignment check, for both of us. If working together makes sense, I show you the right option. If not, you still leave with clarity on your next step. You do not need to know which program fits.
- How does it work?
- All sessions are online. 30 minutes each.
- Can I write to you between sessions?
- Yes. On WhatsApp.
- Do you run ayahuasca ceremonies?
- No. I do not provide substances or ceremonies. I work with people after the experience. The experience is not the change.
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